At times it can feel like trying to find a healthy work/personal life balance can be a never-ending challenge. Demands for career responsibilities often encroach on personal time, and many can feel like they have to sacrifice life outside work to get ahead. However, finding the sweet spot between commitment to your career and maintaining a life outside of it is essential for overall well-being, mental health, and happiness. So, let’s explore effective strategies for juggling your work life and personal life and finding harmony between them.
Know What Matters Most
First things first – take time to reflect on what’s really important to you. What are your short-term and long-term goals? What are your aspirations over the next year both career-wise and personally and how best should you utilise your time and energy? By focusing on your priorities, you can make more informed, intentional choices and ensure you are striving towards a future you can be satisfied with.
Set Boundaries
When it comes to work, it’s all too easy to let it bleed into your personal life, especially if you feel everyone around you is doing the same, but just because your colleagues are practicing bad habits, doesn’t mean you should too. Clearly define your working hours and strive to adhere to them as much as possible. Communicate your boundaries to your colleagues and manager and make it clear when you are willing to stay longer and when you absolutely can’t. It may feel awkward initiating these conversations, but the reward for having clear, set boundaries far outweighs an uncomfortable encounter.
Practice Time Management
Revaluating how you use your time might be the key to ensuring you use your work time to the best of your ability and keep your home time just for you. Start your day with a to-do list that can be achieved, replan your schedule so you’re only using your work hours and avoid overcommitting, identify work that can be delegated to others, and focus your attention on tasks that require your expertise.
Learn to Say ‘No’
A secret code word that can unlock a healthy work/life balance is ‘no’. Learning not to unnecessarily add to your workload by taking on more tasks can be a tough discipline to learn but stretching yourself too thin is only detrimental in the long run, teaches people unachievable expectations, and can lead to burn-out. Evaluate each opportunity that comes your way and consider what you will actually get out of it and whether you’re just giving into your people-pleasing tendencies.
Foster Supportive Relationships
Surround yourself with people both at work and at home who understand and respect your boundaries and priorities, and don’t be afraid to lean on them for encouragement and advice when needed. Cultivate open communication and mutual understanding and be willing to offer support to others in return. If you feel you aren’t getting that support in your current position, it might be time to make some changes in your work situation or at home.
Achieving a work-life balance is an ongoing process that requires intentionality, self-awareness, and commitment. Remember it’s a journey, not a destination, and putting in more time at work some weeks and then taking more time for yourself during others is all part of achieving that balance.